The Surrendered Single

No, I'm not surrendering anything or even getting married. Just want to share will all the other ladies a book I'm reading rite now. The book is not mine, it is Farah's who then lent it to Kak Noli (who is going to be surrendering herself end of this month) and then to me. They both agreed that there are some points in the book that can be useful for all the single ladies (like me..isk..isk) to take note and probably put in practice.

After the first chapter I would say 85% of what she is writing really hit me in the face. I am a control freak! This is the basic principles that the book highlighted (from the author's website).

"when you try to control who asks you out, when a man will call, or corner him into a commitment, you drive him away. When you let him woo you instead, tenderness and romance appear. You enjoy the pleasure of being pursued. You feel confident, feminine, and dignified. Dating becomes fun again. Marriage follows. You stop going it alone."

I am still reading it, been reading it during my weekend in Kuala Tahan. Probably I'll finished it by this weekend. Need sometimes to digest the content trying to relate it to yourself. But, I would recommend it it to other singles (ladies only) to give you another angle of looking at single hood and relationship. Enjoy the book!.